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Issue
dated 19 January 2005
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Juggling
a home and career is often a tight rope act for most working women. But
when you add managing a celebrity status that goes with the job, and throw
in some erratic working hours, the act becomes all that much more difficult.
Take a look at some of these small screen celebs who say they couldn't
imagine life without either - the kids or the cameras!
Divya Seth
(remember Majli in Hum Log aeons ago?) is making a comeback through
Manish Goswami's new show for Zee, Aaj. Her maternity break extended
for four years after daughter Mihika was born, but Divya is now determined
to resume her career despite being based in Pune. "I have a supporting
mother-in-law, sister-in-law and husband. I make sure that I shoot only
12 days a month in Mumbai. Manish, the producer has planned schedules
taking into consideration that I live in Pune." Maninee De, or Pari of Jassi for the couch potatoes has a five and a half year old daughter Dianoor from her earlier marriage. "The secret of managing everything successfully is basically the simple act of balancing everything by prioritizing, using my multi-tasking capabilities, time management and
commitment,"
says the effusive Maninee in one breath. She says she has learnt to manage
things without getting exhausted and this involves making a checklist
of my daily, weekly and monthly goals. And does
her celeb status hinder her role as mother? "As Pari, I do get mobbed
by not only adults but also children. My daughter does feel strange and
scared at times! But I make sure that I give her extra attention and affection
and tell her that I love her the most."
Achint makes it a point not to shoot more than 20 days a month. "I look into his homework, clothes, shopping and everything else." And no, Achint seldom has a problem getting recognized on the streets, "Even when people recognize me on the road, only a few approach me as they think I have an attitude! For Deepshikha, it's double the dilemma, with two young kids at home. She sighs, "It is difficult to manage home, career and children. I give space to myself. I spend quality time with my children, four and a half years old Vidhika and four-month-old son Vivian. I take them out whenever I can. I don't shoot after ten p.m. I have co-operative producers and my mother-in-law is also a great support. I feel working mothers
are more careful about their children as they suffer from separation guilt!
I read stories to my daughter, talk to her and explain things. On her
holidays I even take her to shoots.
"But sometimes when I go to pick her up from birthday parties and people give attention to me, she understands. Mansi Joshi
Roy agrees that motherhood and career are a 'super- balancing' act. "I
am immensely blessed with a great support system. Rohit's mom and my daughter's
20 year old nanny are a great help. Besides, my mom stays fifteen minutes
away from my home. My daughter's school calendar is what I and my husband
follow. As Mansi
sums up the feeling, "At the end of the day when I see my daughter's
smiling face, it makes it possible for me to balance everything without
complaints!" Achint, and Deepshikha's pics by Vicky Ahuja | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||