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Heard
of the swingers club? Well, we have, but
only in hushed tones! But perhaps our society
has come of age today with films like Mixed
Doubles, which explore the sensitive
issue of swapping partners among couples!
We asked some television actors what they
felt about this urban phenomena....some
shrugged, some hesitated and others just
chose not to comment. Here are some of them
who were game enough to tell us what they
felt!
Riya V Anandwala
explores.
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Maninee
De
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Maninee De: It
very much exists in India. India is totally
open to this concept. I am not talking in
terms of Mumbai, but it also in cities like
Chandigarh! And also in places where we
think it can never happen! Personally, I
don't subscribe to it, because I simply
don't believe in the concept. I feel marriage
is sacred and it should not be affected
by such things. Marriage can be sustained
by hardwork. This is not at all a practical
solution. The couple has to learn things
together and help their relationship. They
can do some hobbies together and also have
outings to break the monotony, if it exists.
Scientifically after 18 months the attraction
between a man and woman terminates, what
lasts is trust and friendship. It is all
about perception. And this is just not my
way!
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Nausheen
Ali Sardar
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Nausheen Ali Sardar:
Yes, it exists! And I think people
who do something of this kind are mentally
insane to do it. It's equivalent to opting
for a prostitute. I will never ever subscribe
to this concept. Even if boredom steps into
a marriage, something should be done to
revive the excitement. Couples can opt for
outings, can go clubbing together and yes,
if need be can also see a marriage counsellor.
One has to find a companion in his or her
spouse so that it can be fruitful for the
future.
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Manish
Goyal
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Manish Goyal:
Well, it is a very larger than
life concept, so even if it exists in real
life, people are hiding it. It is behind
the doors. And it will take a lot of time
for people to open up. It can be counted
as one of the solutions but, I will not
adapt it. There are many other things to
do deny boredom entry into a relationship!
Your spouse has to be your companion.
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Nigaar
Khan
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Nigaar Z Khan:
Yes, this concept of swinging couples does
exist! I feel that sex is a very special
time spent between a couple and it is more
of an emotional bonding. I have never seen
sex as entertainment. I will never subscribe
to a concept like that. If marriage gets
monotonous, the best solution for it is
communication. The couple should solutions
by talking to each and communicating the
problems.
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Sharad
Kelkar
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Sharad Kelkar:
I am definitely aware of this
concept, but it doesn't exist in our country.
Will I subscribe to it? What rubbish! (Laughs)
In my point of view this is no solution
for saving a marriage. There are many couples,
groups in society who do adapt to this concept,
but for me it's a total no no. One has to
be innovative with his wife every time.
You cannot go on with the same routine over
and over again. They can go out partying,
watch movies and even can bring out innovation
in having sex.
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Posted
on 22 february 2006 7:55 pm
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