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In
a city where relationships break and support
structures are not easy to come by, there
are still people who not only help TV stars
keep their homes and hearths spic and span,
but also provide that much needed shoulder
to cry on, and be the family they have left
behind in other cities.
Riya V Anandwala spoke to a few stars
to find out the unique relationships they
share with their domestic helps.
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Says Moulli Gangully, a single woman staying
in this metropolis, "I stay with this
girl called Manju, who's 26. She basically
does everything for me. She has been there
for a year. The kind of relationship we
share is very difficult to put in words.
At times she is my mother, at times my friend,
this is because it's only the two of us
living together.
I get angry with her too, when something
goes wrong. But I also buy her things as
I love to pamper her. I completely rely
on her; I am not the kind who will be a
watchdog 24 x 7, it's just not in my nature.
We certainly have an emotional bonding,
I guess it's a woman thing."
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Amit Sadh, who came down to Mumbai a few
years ago with not a penny in hand found
a guy called Girish, and he is very close
to him. "He is 26 and practically knows
everything; he's my master. So we are three
in our family, Neeru, Girish and me. I share
a very strong emotional bonding with him.
We have seen both the bad and the good times
together. There have been times I haven't
paid him, but still he was there by my side.
He eats where I eat, he goes wherever I
go! Neeru too is very fond of him."
Iqbal Khan too saw his share of bad times
in this city of dreams. But there was someone
for him too. "There's this lady who
comes to do my house work and I call her
'amma'. She doesn't cook for me. I respect
her a lot, firstly because she has been
there with me for the past three years,
before I got Angad's role, meaning no money!
She used get home cooked food for me. There
were times I couldn't pay her, but she used
to smile and say, "jab tu hero banega
na, tab de dena."
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Its not only men, but even women need someone
for almost everything. And Narayani Shastri
is one of them. She says, "I was very
close to this girl whom we had hired. She
was basically employed to play with my niece
as she too was very young then. But eventually
I became close to her too. She is now in
Kolkatta as her father expired. I had an
exceptional bonding with her. We treated
her really well and never like a servant;
she used to sleep on my lap and even on
my bed. She'll soon be back, and I am missing
her like anything. By looking at my face
she could make out what I wanted. She knows
my taste when it comes to food very well.
She is a little girl, so had done many courses,
like that of a beautician and used to try
different things on me. If she is not around,
I have my mom here and also we are five
sisters and all of them stay nearby, so
whenever I have a problem they are there
to help me."
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Another actor, who has her parents in town,
but prefers staying alone in an apartment,
is the Remix girl Shweta Gulati.
"Yes! I have a maid and I cannot do
without her. Her name is Neena and she has
been with me sine one and a half years now.
The relationship which I share with her
is excellent, I call her 'tai' and she calls
me 'didi'. She is more like a member of
the family than a maid. She comes up to
me whenever she finds herself in a soup.
Whether it is advances or electricity bills,
I try my level best to help her out. Once,
she got her daughter to me as she wasn't
ready to help her mother. I brainwashed
her and made her understand that she should
help her mother and stuff like that. We
are very close in this sense. I am quite
dependent on her, when it comes to my house
and of course my puppy. I completely depend
on her emotionally as well. I will miss
her when she's not around."
So, despite being alone and lonely in this
big bad world, our celebs have their own
support system that keeps them afloat!
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By RIYA V ANANDWALA |
Posted
on 3 March 2006 6:40 pm
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