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Diwali
is an occasion which no one wants to miss
celebrating but in today's
times, with the fast pace of life, it has
become just another extended
weekend where people look for getaways or
else go out for dinner or watch a
movie. But Gita Hari stumbled upon some
television actors who still believe
in celebrating the joyous festival of lights
in all its traditional glory,replete with
pujas and the exchange of goodies.
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Apara Mehta:
The famous Savita Bhabhi and Tulsi's
ma-in-law of Kyunki… is a typical
Gujarati and believes in tradition
to the T. "For Dhanteras,I
have gifted myself, rather exchanged
my old Indica car for Indigo. Though
we buy sweets I have my maid prepare
chivda and a few mithais
at home as well as it is customary
to do so. If I get the time, I will
personally decorate the house with
rangoli and diyas"
Inspite of being separated from her
husband and theatre actor Darshan
Jariwalla, she spends the day with
her in-laws as she says, "I am
modern in
thinking but very traditional at heart.
I still go to my in-laws' place at
Santa Cruz to take their blessings.
We Gujjus have fixed lunch
and dinner
for Diwali - for instance, if I am
invited over for lunch at my jethani's
(sis-in-law) place, they come over
to my place for dinner. I believe
Diwali
is the time to be with your kith and
kin." Does that include Darshan
as
well?
Elaborating further, she reveals,
"Yes, Darshan too comes
to his parents'
place and as always I will invite
him over. It is a marriage of 25 years
and
I am still waiting for him."
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Ketaki Dave:
She recently made waves when she participated
with husband Rasik Dave in Nach
Baliye on star One but is still
remembered best for her performance
as 'Arara..ra..raa' of Kyunki ki..
Ketaki too celebrates Diwali in a
traditional manner as she gets into
the details, "on Dhanteras
we doLakshmi Pujan and Rasik has
gifted me a pair of diamond earrings
and a diamond finger ring for our
daughter Riddhi. My maharaj
(cook in Gujarati)
has prepared kaju katli, mohantal,
chakli and chivda." The next
day that is the fourteenth day (chaturdashi)
the actor will prepare dal vadas
and inkeeping with the time honoured
custom, they will take it to the crossing
of char raastas without uttering
a word and throw it there to ward
off evil. On Diwali day they perform
chopda puja and of course the rangolis,
diyas and
sparklers.
She has bought a salwar-kameez
for her daughter and a lovely,
sequined sari
and a gorgeous salwar-kameez
for herself. Rasik does not go for
traditional
clothes, so it is a pair of trousers
and shirt for him. And And she has
already begun to receive gifts, the
first one has come from her designer
Rezda, "a
beautiful 5-diya aarti filled with
sweets," she enthuses while Rasik
jovially reminds her that it is his
gift that came first!
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Indira Krishnan:
Though this south Indian beauty may
be playing mother Meera to Kanchi
Kaul in Ek Ladki Anjaani si on Sony
Tv and Neela to Parak Madan in Saathi
Re but is quite young herself. Still
she believes in observing the
rituals of the festival like, "being
a Tamilian, I will take the ritual
oil bath and spend the day with my
husband and my mother, who prepares
South Indian sweets and savouries."
Her Maharashtrian husband Rajesh Ranshinge,who
directs Akela on Sony, took her out
for dinner and gifted her a gold bracelet
from D'damas for Dhanteras.
Her Rajasthani cook has made karanjis
and mohantal and Diwali day
she says, "I will draw rangolis,
light fancy diyas and distribute home-made
sweets among friends." This lovely
lady is looking forward to spending
time with her husband as she is busy
shooting on other days.
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Rupa Divatia:
This elegant lady who played mother
to the famous Abhay Kapoor of Kkusum
on Sony, is in real life quite fond
of Nausheen and Anuj Saxena whom she
considers as her own children and,
"I normally give gifts to them
and this year too we have planned
to have a small get-together. Usually
I go to Ahmedabad to be with my parents
and my in-laws. We do Sri Puja, being
a
Gujju, I do Swatika rangolis, decorate
the house with thorans and light diyas."
Rupa decks herself up with traditional
saris and jewellery on all four days
and buys a gold coin on Dhanteras.
On the goodies front, she has dhudhi
halwas and coconut barfis
and farsans prepared at home
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By GITA HARI |
Posted
on 20 October 2006 5:20 pm
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