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The
earliest Mother's Day celebrations can be
traced back to the spring celebrations of
ancient Greek Goddess Rhea, who was considered
the Mother of the Gods. Then it trickled
down to England and other countries. No
scales can measure the sacrifice and love,
no words can explain the importance of
maternal presence in one's life. In fact,
considering one day as Mother's Day would
be unjust to the unfathomable affection,
care and love that the mother ushers on
her children.
Gita Hari finds out from some TV actors,
one such incident in their lives which reassures
the presence of and reinstates the universal,
phenomenal love of MOTHER…and what plans
are up their sleeves when it comes to gifting
them on this special day
Munisha
Khatwani:
The special bond:
When I met with a severe car accident a
few years back, my mom sat in the ICU for
72 hours without even food and water. The
doctors were not sure of my condition and
she was so disturbed. She did not have a
morsel till I gained consciousness. One
can imagine sitting in the ICU room, it
can be so uncomfortable. I think only a
mother can do this for her child.
D day gift:
Every day is a mother's day for me but I
feel it is necessary to take a special day
out and celebrate it. My brother and myself
will present a card, a bouquet and a cash
present (she can buy whatever she wishes)
to her this year. And yes, we have also
planned a surprise dinner for her.
Amit
Jain:
The special bond:
If not for my mother, I wouldn't be where
I am today, an actor. I come from a joint
family with a family business in jewellery.
When I expressed my desire to become an
actor, everyone including my father was
dead against it. It was my mother who supported
me and convinced my dad to
let me be an actor, if that's what my ambition
was.
D day gift:
As for giving gifts, I still remember I
used to save from my Rs.100 from my pocket
money to buy her bindi and bangles on her
birthday. Then when I started earning, I
bought her a sari worth 11,000 and even
now, I fly to Delhi whenever I get a break
from my shooting. And I always take something
for her, irrespective of whether it's Mother's
Day or not.
Achint
Kaur:
The special bond:
My mother has been my best friend and she's
the person whose impressions I carry in
me. Presently she stays with me. We differ
in many ways, I do things the way I perceive
it to be right but I don't think as a mother
I am even one-fourth of what my mom has
been to me.
D day gift:
I feel observing and devoting one day to
the mother would be trivializing the role
of mother-child relationship. We are not
Mother's Day kind of people. We just wish,
that's it.
Rushad
Rana:
The special bond: My mother has been a strong
influence on me as she has inculcated good
values like forgiveness, tolerance and to
be devoid of ego. Mom made sure that I was
a good student and I remember her waking
me up at 4am and stay up late with me for
studies. Making that early cup of tea and
late at night, keeping awake so that I did
not feel alone…only a mother can do this.
D day gift:
I have never officially celebrated Mother's
Day for the simple reason I never felt the
need to do so on any one day. Right now
she is in Ahmedabad and when she returns,
I will make it a point to take her out for
dinner or movies.
Aparna Tilak:
The special bond: According to me, everyday
should be Mother's Day. When I was schooling,
my mom was a teacher and our shifts used
to clash - I would be home one-and-a-hour
before my mother. I clearly remember, when
on one Mother's Day, I had planned to make
a nice card and set up the house beautifully
for her, in the time I had to myself before
she could come home. But imagine, she had
a surprise for me as I found her home (she
had taken an off) just to prepare a lot
of things and pampered me to the hilt. I
think only a mother can behave in this fashion
of giving, giving and giving without expecting
anything in return
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BY GITA HARI |
Posted
on 5 May 2007 5:30 pm
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