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Just
as a woman’s life is incomplete without being a mother, a man too cannot feel
a sense of completeness in his life without experiencing fatherhood. However,
in these changing times, raising a child is a challenge and hence not many are
prepared for it and would like to opt out of fatherhood. Hollywood
actor and one of the sexiest men in the world, George Clooney recently announced
that he did not wish to ever have children of his own as he hyperventilates even
at the mere sight of his friend’s kids. Even in a traditional country
like India, where marriage and fatherhood is considered a necessity in life, you
find young married and unmarried men, especially in the cities, who are not keen
on having kids. Tellychakkar
caught with up with celebs from the TV industry if they too felt similarly to
Clooney. 
Hiten Tejwani (married) I won’t agree with George Clooney. I’m cut out
to be a good father. I’ve always enjoyed the company of kids. Be it changing diapers
or potty cleaning, I’m prepared to do anything for my baby.
Gaurav
Gera (bachelor) I respect George Clooney’s opinion but I don’t agree with
it. I know many actors in television who are married but yet are not keen on having
kids. I would love to be a father one day. I consider fatherhood as a responsibility.
Changing diapers, cleaning potty, dressing them up and dropping them to school
is a way to show your commitment towards your children.
Karan
Mehra (bachelor) I completely disagree with Clooney. Not liking kids and
puppies implies that you have a heart of stone. May be he must have had prior
(bad) experiences. I simply adore kids no matter how they behave. I’m ready to
do anything for my kid – though I’m still far away from having one. I’m game for
even cranky kids. My father used to always say that you find other’s children
cranky. When it comes to your child, you’re ready to bear everything.
Kunal
Kumar (recently married) Though, I don’t agree with Clooney one needs to
take into account the reasons for him making such a statement. For any parent,
the first 4-5 years of their child is a testing period for them. Most kids are
at their mischievous best in the early years. They break objects, colour the walls
and create a ruckus in the home. However, at the end of the day when a father
returns home from work, he derives joy in seeing the antics of his child. That
truly is bliss.
If one doesn’t want a child for the fear of having
a cranky baby, then he should adopt one. But there again lies a problem. After
all, you’ll never be able to shower unconditional love on an adopted child. Akhir
khoon ka fark hamesha rehta hai. Not all can be Mother Teresa.
Rajeev
Paul (married) I don’t know about George Clooney’s current status so I
can’t comprehend as to why he made such a statement. As far as I’m concerned,
I love kids. Delnaaz and I are looking forward to have one in the near future.
Presently, my pet dog ‘Gabbar Singh Paul’ is our son. While he may not laugh like
Gabbar, he certainly bites like one. Babies are like little men and women and
they are expected to behave in the same way.
| | | | By
Mayur Lookhar |
Posted
on 19 Apr 2008 6:40 pm | | | |