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Real
life for
Parul Chauhan
one of the lead actors of Sapna
babul Ka-Bidaai is quite
similar to her reel life. Having faced very
'racist' comments on her dark complexion
from her grandmother while growing up, Parul
was an unhappy child.
As a kid Parul faced colour issues all
the time. She says, "When I was born
my grandmother remarked that I was very
dark. And till my seventh standard she kept
commenting on my complexion. But after that
everything was fine. She realised that I
was as good as any fair girl. She is no
more but I am sure if she was alive she
would have been very happy with the work
I am doing. I think that is one reason why
I can relate to Ragini (her character in
Bidaai)."
Parul also reveals that the same problem
is faced by her cousin. She says, "My
mama (maternal uncle) has two daughters.
One is fair and the other is dark. So the
dark cousin always faces the discrimination
which I really condemn. They always worry
about her marriage. I ask them to see my
serial and hope that they will change with
time."
But it is not just Parul who faces 'complexion'
issues. Even Vibha Chibber (who played the
coach in Chak de and Parul's mom in Bidaai)
also had a similar experience. But hailing
from a well-educated family of writers (Vibha's
mother and father are writers) she was never
looked down upon by others. In fact it was
Vibha who was self - critical. Vibha says,
"Actually my paternal side is very
fair and my mother is dark. So while growing
up, since I too was dark I feared wearing
certain colours. I always used to doubt
whether or not they will suit me. Even my
husband Vijay Deepak Chibber is very fair.
I still remember when my mother-in-law said
that 'Like any other mother-in-law I too
wanted a fair daughter-in-law but you are
very good-looking'."
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"My mother-in-law makes it a point
to carry my photo wherever she goes. She
shows it to everyone bragging about my good
looks. I also remember when I was a newly-wed
and I used to go for parties with my husband,
all his friends used to tease me saying
that we are poles apart," adds Vibha.
Vibha also feels that it is high time that
our society changes its perspective on this
issue. "I find it very strange when
society differentiates between fair and
dark skin. No matter how the male skin is
but the female has to be fair. A mother
is always worried about her dark daughter's
marital prospects. I just find the whole
thing very gross. I like the serial Bidaai
because it deals with this problem in the
best way possible."
Life's not 'fair' and we hope everyone
gets out of such 'dark' ages.
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By Neha Maheshwri |
Posted
on 4 Jan 2008 5:00 pm
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