| Ravi
Dang, director, on his dancer- actor wife Sudha Chandran. Courtship of eight years.
Married on September 4th, 1995. How
does it feel to have a successful wife?
She was always successful even
before we got married. She has achieved a lot in life. I am very fortunate to
have an inspiring and brave wife. Her biography in Bal Bharti is being taught
to all the students in the country. I salute her valor. Does
she seek advice from you?
We are friends first and spouses later. We hail
from the same field so we do share our opinions with each other. She is senior
than me so even I take her advice. There is no ego between us. She too asks me
for advice whenever she needs it. What is your mantra for a
successful marriage?
A husband and wife are like two wheels of a cart which
have to move together. A problem in one wheel can result in the imbalance of the
cart. Spouses have to be in sync. What is the biggest hurdle
that you have faced?
We have been together during the ups and downs of
life. She has been my pillar of support when I was struggling. She too has had
her share of hard times. We have both adjusted to make space for each other. The
only difficulty that we had faced was when we were getting married. I am a Punjabi
and she is a South Indian. Trust me it was tough to convince our families.
Do you think you are sacrificing?
Our relation is so strong that
there is no place for sacrifices. One has to sacrifice when your partner doesn’t
understand your needs and desires. As then you end up sacrificing your dreams.
We have a very smooth personal and professional life together. What
is that one thing that you like the most about her?
Everything about her
is inspiring. There is not a single fault that I can point out. She is very nice
and adjusting. She has been a dutiful daughter and a loving wife.
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