Sameer Kochhar, who essays the role of Rajat in Ekta Kapoor's mature love story on Sony Entertainment Television, Bade Acche Lagte Hain (Balaji Telefilms) can very well relate to the present state of mind of his onscreen character in the show. Sameer who is a happily married guy in real life states, "Women indeed have the power to make guys go nuts; they control the relationship levers. Frankly speaking, you cannot live with them and you cannot live without them (smiles). I have in real life gone through what Rajat is facing right now in Bade Acche. And I have to say, the journey of love that I had was wonderful." Talking about his character in the show, the actor shares, "Rajat’s character is opening up. He has fallen for Priya (Sakshi Tanwar) and does not know what to do. Rajat has had a bad relationship which had made him a hard man, but now things are changing. Ironically, he is being helped in his romance by Priya’s ex-husband Ram (Ram Kapoor) who happens to be his friend. There is a lot of guy banter between Ram and Rajat which is fun. The audience likes the current equation between Ram, Priya and Rajat and the rising TRP numbers are an indication to it." On asking whether his character will eventually turn negative, Sameer opines, "If this was any other show, I would have answered with a 'Yes'. But Bade Achhce Laggte Hain has stood out because it is different. We have had films like Kuch Kuch Hota Hai too where the other guy (Salman Khan) is not bad. In any case, I will not have an issue even if Rajat turns negative. But as of now, we have no such plans; we are just going with the flow."